Procrastination plagues most people at some point in their lives. It is definitely a problem for those suffering through depression and anxiety. However, there are sometimes some little steps one can take, even while living with depression, that can make you feel better about yourself.
Conquering procrastination for just one thing or for just one day, can lighten one’s mood and help you feel as though you are proactively doing something to improve your situation.
Honestly, procrastination has always remained with me, even though I often take steps to end it. It seems as though I can only end it for a set span of time, or for a particular project, but every step forward counts – it’s better than standing still.
The article linked below provided a good tip on how to end procrastination.
Simply place yourself in the future and imagine how you feel if you conquered procrastination and experienced the rewards of that.
Place yourself into a future where you have continuously procrastinated and therefore NOT received any benefits, only regrets.
You may be thinking that this is not relevant to you because you are depressed, or because your anxiety level is just too high.
I would ask you to consider it a bit further.
For instance, have you been wanting something that you can honestly get for yourself, but you simply cannot muster up the strength and will to actually get it?
It could be something as simple (or as complex) as having a milkshake or a smoothie.
You may not feel up to making one yourself, and that’s okay.
Here’s the thing.
If you have access to a car, drive yourself to McDonald’s and get a milkshake or a smoothie (their’s are gluten free). You can pick it up using the drive-through window, so it does NOT matter what you wear, or how you look. Put on some sun-glasses and go.
If you are worried about the menu choice, then check it out online before you go.
If you don’t have access to a car, then the next best thing is to ask someone to pick one up for you. Again, check the menu online, so you can be specific when you ask,
The art of asking for something you want is often lost when one is depressed. So force yourself to ask for something you want – something within reason, of course.
Maybe it’s not such a big deal if you don’t get the milkshake. But maybe it is a big deal if you would like a milkshake and do nothing about it. That’s the real issue.
Maybe you can’t go today, but how about plan to go tomorrow or even next Sunday?
Set a goal. Make arrangements to get something you want – either on your own, or by asking someone for a small favor.
Every change you make can change your future for the better.
I know which future I prefer – no regrets.
What say you?
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